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Publicerat klockan 03:24, den 9 januari 2018

Unfortunately, some parents go beyond the occasional mistake and veer into the toxic category. Regardless of whether or not a parent is purposefully being toxic, there are several behaviors that can cause so much emotional and mental damage to a child that it ends up greatly affecting them even after they have grown up.

If you experienced any of the following situations as a child, the odds are high that one or both of your parents were at least slightly toxic.

1. They Fail To Provide You With Affirmation And Security

Some people believe that showing tough love is an important way to ensure that their children are able to take care of themselves in the future. If you were the recipient of this approach on a regular basis, you might even believe that this has had a positive impact on your life. However, if you practically fall apart now because of any perceived failure or rejection, then this most likely stems from a parent's toxic refusal to provide you with the right amount of security and affirmation while you were young. Tough love might work sometimes, but it cannot be the only approach a parent takes if they want their child to become a well-rounded adult.

2. They Are Overly Critical

Everyone's parents criticize from time to time. Without this component, we might never learn how to do numerous things properly, such as everyday chores like washing laundry. A toxic parent takes this to extremes by being overly critical about everything their child does. Parents can make the mistake of believing that they do this to make sure their children avoid making costly mistakes. Unfortunately, what this behavior really does is causing the child to develop a harsh inner critic that can be borderline crippling during adulthood.

3. They Demand Your Attention

Toxic parents often turn their children into their own parental substitutes by demanding their attention at all times. This can be seen as bonding between the parent and child, but it is really a parasitic relationship that requires too much of the child's time and energy when they should be focused on learning other skills. Although it may be difficult at times, a well-rounded parent will allow their children enough space to grow and be kids without demanding constant interaction to suit their own needs.

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become in control of your

Publicerat klockan 05:24, den 14 december 2017

They are content to be, follow and become what everyone else is doing. They start to think, act, perform like the others and even believe that they like what the others like without question. They don't stop to find out what they like, desire or what their talents are.

Sadly, they can easily be lead into a mob mentality and create death, destruction and pain on incident people while following someone else's agenda.

It is important to ask your self:
It what the other person saying true
Could he just be an antagonist with a hidden adgenda
Are these people riding on fear or being irrational
Is what they are saying even logical
Have I checked the facts
Are they looking to blame someone for their own stuff.

Sometimes the other person may be trying to get you to follow there styles, beliefs or philosophies;

Ask yourself:
Is this true for me
Is it in alignment with my own value systems
Would I be comfortable doing this.
Do I feel pressured by this

When we ask ourselves the deeper questions, and take the time to look for answers, we remain true to ourselves. We then feel more confident and not worry about regrets later on.

Dr. William James knew the importance of people thinking for themselves. When he taught his classes, he encouraged his students to read the works of people that thought differently than he did. That way they could understand deciding things for themselves as apposed to being lead through their education and throughout their lives.

This is one of the best reasons that I know to improve your perceptions and communicate confidently your own truth and understanding. If you don't feel confident, work on changing it. Take classes, read books. Remember to invest in your independence and confidence to make the right decisions. And not get trapped in following someone else's hidden agenda.

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'Youthquake' named 2017 word of the year by Oxford Dictionaries

Publicerat klockan 07:40, den 24 november 2017

“Youthquake”, defined as “a significant cultural, political, or social change arising from the actions or influence of young people”, has been selected by Oxford Dictionaries as the 2017 word of the year.

The term saw a 401% increase in usage year-on-year as 2017 saw the often-maligned millennial generation drive political change. The publishers cited the UK and New Zealand general elections as examples of young voters mobilising to support opposition parties bear market.

Youthquake was chosen off a shortlist of 10 words that includes other timely political terms, including Antifa – a shortening of “anti-fascist” that has morphed over time to become a proper noun for a political movement – and kompromat – a word for compromising information gathered to be used in blackmail, typically for political purposes. It made headlines in September, when Russian politician Nikita Isaev threatened to “hit Donald Trump with our kompromat” on state TV.

Other words in the running this year include broflake, a label for men who are easily enraged by progressive attitudes that conflict with their views; unicorn, a description for items of food and drink that are altered to be colourful and glittery; and Milkshake Duck, a term for a person or thing that inspires a positive reaction on social media, but is revealed to have a negative past. Taking its name from an internet meme, this phenomenon has most recently been observed in the case of Keaton Jones, an American child who appeared in an emotional video about bullying, but whose parents were revealed to have posed with Confederate flags.

While the word of the year is usually added to Oxford dictionaries, youthquake is already listed; it was originally coined in the 1960s by Vogue editor Diana Vreeland to describe how British youth were changing fashion and music around the world.

Lexicographer Susie Dent said the 2017 shortlist showed that “there’s not a lot of sunshine in the standout words this year. Words like Antifa and kompromat speak to fractured times of mistrust and frustration. In youthquake we finally found some hope in the power to change things, and had a little bit of linguistic fun along the way. It feels like the right note on which to end a difficult and divisive year.”

“Youthquake may not seem like the most obvious choice for word of the year, and it’s true that it’s yet to land firmly on American soil, but strong evidence in the UK calls it out as a word on the move,” said Casper Grathwohl, president of Oxford Dictionaries.

In a blogpost explaining the decision, Grathwohl wrote: “We chose youthquake based on its evidence and linguistic interest. But most importantly for me, at a time when our language is reflecting our deepening unrest and exhausted nerves, it is a rare political word that sounds a hopeful note. Sometimes you pick a word as the word of the year because you recognise that it has arrived, but other times you pick one that is knocking at the door and you want to help usher in ... I think this past year calls for a word we can all rally behind,Development of PolyU e admission further enhances the intake of polyu postgraduate and undergraduate students, rendering the university one of the most popular institutions for tertiary education in Hong Kong.”

Other words of the year selected by dictionaries include “fake news”, which was crowned by Collins Dictionary, and “feminism”, which was picked by US institution Merriam-Webster based on the increased interest in the term after the global Women’s March in early 2017.

Oxford Dictionaries word of the year 2017 shortlist
Antifa noun: A political protest movement comprising autonomous groups affiliated by their militant opposition to fascism and other forms of extreme right-wing ideology

broflake noun, informal, derogatory: A man who is readily upset or offended by progressive attitudes that conflict with his more conventional or conservative viewsgorpcore noun: A style of dress incorporating utilitarian clothing of a type worn for outdoor activities

kompromat noun: Compromising information collected for use in blackmailing, discrediting, or manipulating someone, typically for political purposes

Milkshake Duck noun: A person or thing that initially inspires delight on social media but is soon revealed to have a distasteful or repugnant past

newsjacking noun: The practice of taking advantage of current events or news stories in such a way as to promote or advertise one’s product or brand,Want a memorable experience for your clients? Check out PartnerNet for the top Things to do in Hong Kong: dining, shopping and unique cultural activities

unicorn adjective [attributive]: Denoting something, especially an item of food or drink, that is dyed in rainbow colours, decorated with glitter, etc.

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Social Commerce: Paytm goes the WeChat way, launches ‘Inbox’ with in-chat payments

Publicerat klockan 09:47, den 23 november 2017

Noida based digital payments firm Paytm on Friday launched ‘Inbox’, a messaging service that will allow consumers to chat with friends and family along with send or request for digital cash at the same time.


The messaging platform is encrypted end-to-end, and users can initiate private conversations and create group chats. They can also send photos and videos instantly or share their live location.


“We have realized that besides making payments, our users and merchants also like to communicate with each other.  There is a need for social messaging, commerce and payments seamlessly blending into one another,” said Deepak Abbot, Senior Vice President, Paytm.


Paytm Inbox is live on Android and will be available to iOS users soon. It also includes notifications, orders, and games.


It also allows users to recall their messages using a ‘Delete for All’ option.


Also Read: WhatsApp starts rolling out update that allows deletion of sent messages in a group


Under ‘Notifications’ users can see all cash-back offers available across all categories.


Under ‘Orders’ users can view their orders and transaction updates.

“Through “Paytm Inbox” you can chat, send and receive money effortlessly and securely. This will help us drive greater engagement on our platform and build a stronger bond with our customers,” Abbot added.

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right hair color involves more

Publicerat klockan 08:07, den 21 november 2017



There are several types of hair coloring formulas to add temporary, semi-permanent or permanent color. You or your stylist can apply the hair color as a shampoo, mousse, coloring liquid plus fixative, or even a spray-on, depending on the formula.


You can also purchase natural hair coloring agents such as henna. Chemical-free formulas are not permanent, but they are much gentler on hair than those manufactured with harsh dyes.




Blonde hair is very popular. However, some people simply do not have the skin tone for light hair. If you want to go blonde, choose a dark, golden blonde shade first, before going lighter. It will be easier to judge how light you can go later and still look natural.


Red hair is a difficult color to get right unless you are naturally a redhead, or you naturally have red highlights in your hair. Brown hair is easier and works with most skin tones.




Blonde hair helps hide gray hair; however if you have very pale skin, blonde hair can make you look washed out. In addition, if you have yellow tones in your skin, blonde hair enhances the yellow, making you look jaundiced.


Often women use the wrong shade of red, resulting in loud, clownish orange-red hair rather than stylish red. If you are brunette going for red, try auburn first. If you are blonde, have a professional add the color.


Pale skin looks paler with dark brown hair, but this is not always bad---it can be mysterious and sexy. If you have green eyes, dark hair can look ravishing.


Time Frame


Temporary hair color will last until you wash your hair, though hints of color may remain longer if your hair takes color very easily.


Semi-permanent hair color lasts from one week to several weeks. Much depends on the brand, how often you shampoo your hair, and what kind of shampoo you are using. Shampoos for color-treated hair will help even semi-permanent color last longer.


Permanent hair color will last until your hair grows out---however the color may change due to sun exposure and hair products. You will need to color roots about once every six weeks.

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Facebook helps blood donation go viral

Publicerat klockan 11:52, den 28 september 2017


While many people are interested and willing to give blood, they might not know how to sign up, where to go, or have the social pressure to actually go do it. Putting this information on Facebook creates a highly visible reminder, and seeing the blood donor tag on people’s profiles could convince them they should sign up too.


It’s all part of an initiative in India pegged to the country’s National Blood Donation Day on October 1st. That’s when Facebook will start showing a message in the News Feed in India requesting people sign up, as well as offering a new section of the profile they can fill out.


In the following weeks, Facebook will roll out the next phase in India, allowing people to make requests for donors to give blood for a specific person or organization like a blood bank or hospital. People will have the option to include the needed blood type, where it needs to be donated, their contact information, and a story about the person or group in need.


Then, people nearby who’ve indicated they’re willing to give blood will get a notification through Facebook requesting they step up. They’ll be able to vet the request and get in contact via phone call, WhatsApp, or Messenger.


One important thing is that people aren’t actually registering with a blood donation bank using this Facebook feature. That will happen when they go to donate.


Eventually if the program goes well in India, Facebook could roll it out to other places. Back in 2012 Facebook similarly did a drive to sign people up for organ donation. And its News Feed alerts to register to vote were shown to have helped get 2 million people registered.


This week Facebook has been dogged by claims of election interference and its potential to negatively influence people. But Facebook has a huge capacity to push people to do good. It’s just a matter of balancing philanthropy and humanitarian causes with avoiding Facebook becoming a big guilt trip.



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The new drama let enterprise dance

Publicerat klockan 06:16, den 1 juli 2016


Innovative city of Shenzhen to further promote the structural reform of the supply side, in order to implement the country's major strategic economic zone to make greater contributions. Let Shenzhen so emboldened to make a series of deployment is Shenzhen creative vitality of the corporate groups, and accelerate the construction of integrated innovation eco system, is for the growth of this group provide inexhaustible creativity driving force.

Innovation into enterprise endogenous nuclear power"

At present, Shenzhen has more than 3 scientific and technological enterprises, accounting for 60% of Guangdong science and technology enterprises, of which there are 5524 national high-tech enterprises, the domestic and foreign exchange listed companies in Shenzhen more than 300.

Thanks to a sound industrial chain and a sound business environment, Shenzhen enterprises followed the innovative heritage, the formation of the "force me to innovate to I want to innovate" endogenous type change. Relying on this powerful enterprise group, the pace of innovation in Shenzhen, a powerful, innovative results in an endless stream.

 Outsiders in evaluating the innovation phenomenon in Shenzhen, mentioned four "90%", 90% of the R & D institutions set up in the enterprise, more than 90% of the R & D personnel concentrated in enterprises, more than 90% of the R & D funding sources in enterprises, more than 90% of the duty invention patents from the enterprise. 90% "4" reflects the main status of Shenzhen enterprises in independent innovation, is the most prominent feature of Shenzhen's independent innovation system. According to statistics, in terms of government funding, Shenzhen financial science and technology funds to invest nearly 70% enterprises, the annual number of enterprises to undertake science and technology projects accounted for 50% of the total number of projects, more than 70% of innovative carrier layout in the enterprise.

 By strengthening the dominant position of enterprise innovation, efforts to increase supply of technical innovation, and give full play to the role of main force in scientific and technological innovation activities of enterprises in technological innovation decision-making, R & D investment, scientific research organization and transformation, Shenzhen has gradually formed a "big business" indomitable spirit and small enterprises "overwhelming" development pattern.

 at present, a number of industry leading enterprises is becoming an important business card of Shenzhen innovation driven development, Huawei is the world's largest mobile communications equipment company and the three intelligent mobile phone manufacturers; BYD is the world's only at the same time with new energy battery and vehicle production capacity of enterprises; BGI is the world's largest genome science research institutions and gene sequencing services platform; Xinjiang science and technology has occupied the consumer grade man-machine 70% of global market share; soft Yu technology successfully developed the world's thinnest flexible color display; Huaxun ark company success developed the world's first block of graphene terahertz chip...

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How to give children with glasses

Publicerat klockan 11:43, den 21 juni 2016


Dear mothers, are your children short sighted? Reason not to say, not only learn tired ~ now children's eyes staring at smart phones, iPad these electronic products, with less exercise, so, more and more myopic baby! Glasses you must consider, look at the handsome not wear glasses? Hey ~ ~ actually, choose glasses must choose for their own, not necessarily the price high is good. Zhi Lijun studied for a long time today, we sorted out some scientific glasses strokes! You see ~.

Matching glasses, should pay attention to these three points

We should choose a regular institution of optometry optometry, optometry to correct fitting a pair of suitable glasses. If young people under the age of 18 friends, but also the need for mydriatic optometry, to determine the true myopia and pseudomyopia.

Buy glasses is the age of the points, compared to younger children and adolescents should choose plastic resin glasses, because the plastic lens is not easy to be broken, for the lack of self protection experience of young children is relatively safe, try not to choose glass lenses.

In the selection of frames, general according to the children's face choose appropriate, safety, light weight, durable frames, general to plate type frame is better, and should notice hanging ear length, to increase the frame stability. Children are restless, so it will be accompanied by a chain, hanging in the neck.

The medical optometry, with good habits with the eyes

There are two ways of commercial glasses, optometry and medical optometry. The difference between the two is that, medical optometry, the purpose is not only the patient can see objects clearly, also can the eye care, let patients glasses can see, wearing glasses comfortable, even if read for a long time did not have sense of fatigue. And commercial glasses only through preliminary refraction on the patient's situation under the conclusion, making visual acuity and not a result of wearing glasses and corrected, and even cause eyesight to continue to drop.

The medical optometry clinical diagnosis is a dynamic process and procedure. The general situation of optometry, optometrists need to understand the patient's medical history, routine eye and systemic, and patients daily study life, hence the need for professional optometric physician diagnosis. After diagnosis of glasses is tailored to patients with a full range of, for the protection of visual acuity and correction have good effect, but at the same time, the patient also should develop good using eye habits, in order to prevent eyesight to drop. ? glasses myopia will deepen?

After glasses can prevent myopia continue to deepen? Visual acuity can be corrected to normal level after glasses? These problems are most concerned about the problem of myopia.

Actually, as long as the medical optometry optician, generally the visual acuity recovered to normal levels, and medical optometry is maximally improve the binocular visual function and therefore optician can help alleviate eye fatigue. But keep stable visual acuity patients need glasses after develop good habits with the eye, in a timely manner through rest alleviate eye fatigue, so as to better ensure vision correction effect.

To wear or not to wear? Depends on the degree of myopia

Many parents believe that children wear glasses after they do not pick it again, this is the wrong understanding. In general, younger than 12 years old children suffering from myopia, hyperopia or astigmatism, should always wear glasses; teenagers above 100 degrees of myopia or hyperopia, simple astigmatic patients above 75 degrees, as usual with an eye to more, eye ciliary muscle function is not stable, eye fatigue, both to see far or near, in principle should often wears a pair of glasses. But this does not mean that children wear glasses will never be picked again. In fact, some of the children with ametropia degree is not too high hyperopia and astigmatism, grow up with the eye and visual function development, there is hope to completely remove glasses; after the children grow up, the eye and the visual function development is perfect, if myopia degree is not too high, I think he doesn't wear glasses what there is no discomfort, can not often wear glasses, or not wearing a watch nearby, see afar (such as movies or games) to wear; and hyperopia is not too high in patients, such as watching the distant clear, near visual fatigue symptoms (such as eye soreness, astringent, paroxysmal blurred vision), can wear glasses to see nearby, not wearing away.

Now, so many electronic products, but to pay attention to vision oh! The latest research data show that one hour of daily increase in outdoor activities, can effectively reduce the probability of occurrence of myopia. In order to protect our most precious "window of the soul", it may be in the spare time to go outdoors "candy"!

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The ancient water chestnut preservation technology

Publicerat klockan 05:22, den 15 juni 2016


Water chestnut horseshoe, Li, taro and other birds. The edible bulb is crisp and juicy, cooked food, raw food can, with stomachic, expectorant, antipyretic and other effects. Water chestnut harvest, farmers in accordance with the following simple method can effectively extend the shelf life of water chestnut, increase the sales value of the products.

Water chestnut pithos storage after harvest, remove the corm epidermis of dirt and debris, eliminate disease, injury corm, spreading on brick 12 to 15 days, after proper drying, water chestnuts placed indoor pottery in (not available pickled vegetable's pithos, pithos should be placed in dry and ventilated place). Each cylinder storage capacity of about 80 to 100 kilograms, the full water chestnut storage taogang mouth seal. Must pay attention to is: storage in water chestnut pithos strong during the initial respiration in the shall be uncover the cylinder head, to facilitate ventilation breathable, sporadic cylinder water; in the rainy season, because of the high humidity in the air, in water chestnut with water will rapidly increase, should be timely uncovering wet discharged; burning hot and humid season, due to faster evaporation of water to time stamped, to prevent water chestnut corms in vivo moisture evaporation caused by dry rot. In the process of storage, every 25 ~ 30 days shall taogang within the water chestnuts turning a check. According to the above storage method, water chestnut preservation period up to more than half a year.

Sand storage water chestnut harvest, in a cool house or in the basement, with brick a burial pit, in the pit at the bottom of the first shop 5 ~ 7 cm thick sand, water chestnut corms arrangement of dry sand, it must cover sand 3 ~ 4 cm, sand again according to the above method discharge water chestnut corm, accordingly stacks, but the total stack height of not more than 1 meter. This method has a good effect on storage and preservation.

Quickly immersed in sodium hypochlorite solution storage the water chestnut harvest to miscellaneous bulbs after cleaning storage. According to the test, the use of the storage, at the temperature of 0 ~ 2 C and the relative humidity of 98% ~ 100% of the storage environment and corm preservation period up to 10 months, in 5 DEG C storage shelf-life of up to 6 to 8 months.

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The prospect of food surveillance

Publicerat klockan 05:16, den 8 juni 2016


The implementation of the national and provincial and municipal food (including food additives, health food, alcohol, the same below) safety, medicine (including traditional Chinese medicine and ethnic medicine, the same below), medical equipment, cosmetics, supervision and management laws, regulations, rules, formulate related planning, specification documents, and supervise their implementation. Promote the establishment and implementation of food and drug safety the main responsibility of the enterprise, town (street) responsibility mechanism, organization and implementation of major food and drug information reporting system; regional, system of food and drug safety risk prevention.

Responsible for the implementation and supervision of food related to administrative licensing; establish food safety hazards investigation and management mechanism, to develop the region's food safety and inspection annual plan, major rectification plan and organize the implementation; to organize the implementation of a unified food safety information release system, announced the region's major food safety information; organize and carry out the food safety supervision work sampling inspection; participate in the development of the region's food safety risk monitoring plan, according to the food safety risk monitoring plan to carry out the work of food safety risk monitoring.

Responsible for the implementation and supervision of medicines, medical equipment, preparation of relevant administrative licensing; the implementation of the national pharmacopoeia, medicines and medical equipment standards and classification management system of supervision; supervision of medicines and medical equipment development, production, operation and use of quality management standards; organize and carry out the drug supervision and sampling inspection work; the establishment of drug adverse reactions, the adverse medical device the event, drug abuse and cosmetic adverse reaction monitoring system and carry out monitoring and disposal work; with the implementation of national essential drug system; the implementation of the processing standard of traditional Chinese medicines supervision; monitoring of drugs and medical devices advertising; measures for organizing the implementation of the supervision and management of the implementation of national cosmetics; licensed pharmacist qualification system.

Responsible for the development of the region's food, medicines, medical equipment, cosmetics, supervision and management of inspection system and to organize the implementation, to organize the investigation of major illegal behavior; standardize administrative law enforcement behavior, improve the administrative law enforcement and criminal justice convergence mechanism; supervise the implementation of product recall and processing system.

Responsible for the construction of food and drug safety accident emergency system, organize and guide the food and drug safety accident emergency handling and investigation and handling work, supervise the implementation of the accident investigation.

Responsible for the development of the region's food and drug safety technology development policy measures and organize the implementation of food and drug inspection and testing system, electronic regulatory traceability system and information technology.

Responsible for food and drug safety publicity, education and training; promote the construction of good faith system.

Master the analysis of food, medicine, medical equipment, cosmetics safety situation and existing problems, put forward to improve the system mechanism and improve the work of the proposal; guide the town (street) food and drug supervision and management work.

Undertake the daily work of the District Food Safety Commission; responsible for the comprehensive coordination of food safety supervision and management, sound coordination linkage mechanism; supervision and inspection of food safety laws, regulations and Food Safety Commission Decision deployment implementation; to supervise and inspect the town (street) to fulfill the situation of food safety supervision and management responsibilities and is responsible for evaluation.

The District, district government and other matters assigned by the Security Council of the district food.

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Publicerat klockan 05:13, den 8 juni 2016

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